Thanks Finah, I know things will get better one day, although I don't really at the moment, but everyone tells me it will.
The longest we have had no contact is 3 weeks....I think now after this I will try to stop it for a long time, I've tried before but I worry about her and miss her and just want to see or talk to her. I know, I'm pathetic.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011