This is good stuff - I will print it to read it more often, because I think I need reminding - as a society we are very conflicted about anger, whether we are allowed to have it or not, i.e. : It now has entered the realm of 'put-down' to say to someone "oh- you are angry - what is your problem ?" It is important to remember it's appropriateness, and that it is a signal of other stuff. Thanks - I'll keep looking to see what's next. P.S. I agree completely , the gender thing doesn't apply so much, it is genderless.
