ROMB, I think you did the right thing. I think short and sweet was in order. I'm glad he wanted to talk to his D. FWIW, I'll offer up something our MC offered up a couple of years ago in regards to anger. He said it's usually related to fear or hurt. I think in the earlier incident, it was likely fear. Fear of losing control. And my DB coach once told me - fear is a powerful motivator, but a miserable guide. I think it can lead to irrational behavior. Just a couple things to think about.
