I assumed you had discussed this moving out with a L....if not, do so at once.
Second, since there do seem to be some positives going on so why change what may be working? Did I miss something?
Why go dark NOW? Not sure I got that.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016