Journaling:

It was an interesting night so far. I was out with some friends and my H called. Where I was at was loud so as I was walking outside, I answered the phone. He heard the music in the background and asked what I was up to. I told him that I was out with some friends. He then told me how cute our D's hair looked. Her hair was curly today. It was small talk then we hung up. Well 10 mins later I got a text from him saying:

H: party girl!!!! :-P
Me: Thats me! Wish u were here.
H: so do i...that would mean we had a babysitter! LMAO!
Me: Could have been arranged.
H: how?
Me: with enough notice or later
H: call me. when u can, silly
Me: ok

So I waited another 30 min and then I called him. Once again, small talk.

Hopefully this detaching stuff is working.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)