alcoholic H decided he wants D

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Well VC that was something to think about....
Why is it harder?? At this point the only contact weve had was when he wants to talk abot D. He doesnt want to talk about anything else. I wont hear fron him and start thinking there is some hope and start feeling better, only to get a twxt about D and get thrown right back into feeling hopeless...the yoyo effect is killing me. I just cant do the limbo thing anymore.
I dont really think its hesitation. He just has never done anything on his own, ive always taken care of everything and he wants me to do this for him to. There are days when i say i refuse to do this for you and days were i think i should just do it and get it over with.....
Maybe then he will realize what hes losing...i dont know.
We live about 10 min. Apart. I will use that suggestion and take S to him when i have something to do..great idea. I have a history of not thinking of myself and making things easy for him. I need to stop that!!
Thanks again for the support..