25 - Why the letter now? Well I think I've moved off that idea for the time being for the reasons you and others have stated.
I think however where my mind was at in this is that if I'm going to move out to give my W the space she needs, it is a very big step and one that I may never be able to take back, so I guess I thought it would be appropriate to say my piece.
I realize I'm just a babe in the woods in terms of how long my sitch has been going and know that there is going to have to be a LOT OF TIME needed for healing, reflection and for my changes to take root. So I guess I am/was getting ahead of myself.
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife