too much time and distance

[any chance?]

Had a session with IC today. She says that it is good for me to accept the D, as it will allow me to start to heal. We shall see.

The D is a piece of paper my W needs. I think her roughest times are still in front of her, after she recognizes her new professional, social and financial situation. W says she needs this. She is going to get what she wants. Hope she is ready for it.

I suspect she is going to be needing some serious support once reality sets in. We shall see.

Still looking for good books on Rebuilding Trust and Forgiveness