GALing and Boundaries with XH

[tested metal]

Being there, Doing that, and Unfotunately getting the T-shirt. I realized that by me stopping to look for others to fill that need and working on myself will help with that void. Keeping busy helps for me. I just remind myself that I would not want to hurt an innocent person. The funny thing is that before I met my W I got burned by a previous girlfriend and was in a F%^$%^ women type of attitude. I wanted nothing to do with them and was happy just working on me. Then like a lightning bolt She hit me. Its funny how we want to repeat the same patterns.