My W asked me a month before bomb #2, after she got her 2nd tatoo if I thought she was in MLC.
I have to agree that I think that some have an inkling. Some might even use it as an excuse. Who knows? The important thing is to work on yourself. I am learning that the very hard way.
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12