Please read his whole thread before 1) advising and 2) telling him to go against his DB coach's advice and even then maybe NOT....
I know it's hard, but you have to make sure you are not projecting your own sitch onto his.
GENERALLY, DBing says not to be the one to move out. There are exceptions.
2t, why the letter to her now? What's the goal, honestly?
Wouldn't it be more effective, if designed to get her to reconsider,
to write it later after you are gone and busy GAL, showing that your changes are real and lasting?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
