luv49 you are very new to the process and should not lose hope. Life is not fair it was not intended to be. You have to DB, GAl act as if, detach. You do not know what the future holds for you or me. Focus on you, think of things you wanted to do ie go back to school learn a trade whatever. If you focus on her she will smell it. I have detached from my W and try not to think of my sitch when at home. i have noticed that my W is always looking at me and she seems sadder than when this all started. do not snoop, look at phone bills, FB emails. It will only hurt you and push her away. Hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
