Not trying to hit you with a 2x4 at all.. but do you really think he doesn't know you care??
It is seriously just a question and one I ask myself every time I have those thoughts about my own spouse.
I don't view that as a 2x4 at all. That's why I like you Valeska, you ask very valid questions. I don't know what he thinks anymore, anything is possible I suppose.
My grandfather had a heart attack yesterday. He & his W were on a bus tour when he suddenly felt like he couldn't breathe and collapsed. His W called 911 and thankfully they got there very quickly or else he would have died. he has some clots in his heart, so they have him on bed rest & blood thinners to hopefully dissolve them. If the clots move, it could be fatal. Despite all of this, he seems in pretty good spirits. When I heard the news I told the boys and we sent a quick prayer up to God that he'll be ok. I debated telling my H, but then decided against it.
I'm sure eventually someone will post something on FB regarding it and we have a lot of mutual friends. He'll find out that way.
I have a pretty busy weekend planned with the kids. Tomorrow we are all getting hair cuts, then attending a Halloween party being thrown By an organization my parents belong to. If the weather is decent, we are also going to hit up a pumpkin patch. They have a petting zoo with all sorts of animals and since I absolutely LOVE goats, I want to go.
Tonight I plan on watching tv and admiring my new carpet.