Good job! That old human nature never fails. If you stop paying attention to her and act as if you really don't care what she does, then that will draw her in and the next thing you know....she's pursuing you.

This is hard for the LBH to understand and he gets confused b/c of other instructions he's read....but this is how you implement the LRT. Once the H can reach that emotional detachment from his W....then he can quickly see how it works.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!