kim - no kidding - isn't it amazing how so many of the db principles are actually BIBLICAL principles?
rachel - thanks for stopping by - in reading over your last few posts i get a sneaky sense of "indifference" - that is a scary place to be because indifference is the opposite of love - i can certainly understand that you are tired of this mess, and maybe this is your way of getting thru it, but remember we have to detach with LOVE
blair - leave it to a lawyer to draw the "facts" out and make me see the light. living day to day in this sort of situation is truly a test of faith - and what is faith? the assured expectation of things hoped for - the reality of which you have not beheld - ok ok, point taken!
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POSITIVES
1) ok, another movie down! yup, last night we watched ANOTHER movie
2) boys got into a little scramble with neighbors kids, hubby went a tad ballistic. when all got explained, things calmed down. whenever this has happened before, i usually come to the boys defense, cause hubby can be a bit hard on them. well this time i just let him be, only spoke when he asked me a ?
i do believe that he appreciated it, cause the rest of the night it wasn't discussed, and him and i actually enjoyed the movie - "more of the same" would have been both of us moping around with him usually mad at me for butting in