Slow yourself down a bit....... Anger is okay man, I can't tell you how many times I literally did not care if I ended up in jail, not towards my WW, but towards her wayward step dad & POSOM. But I slowed myself down......find a way.
Your upset and you have a right to be upset, a lot has gone on. But don't take it out on her. I know at this stage you might feel it doesn't matter, it does. It's important that you leave this situation with your head held high. Not so much for your W, but for your benefit.
My advice.....let this die down for a couple of days.......and apologize. Doesn't have to be 10 pages long, just a few sentences. Own it and then move on. Also this process......not everyone is going to be okay with everything, there are going to be bumps, you both will feel at times you are getting the short end of the stick.
But in the end...........none of that stuff truly defines you.
10 years from now.......it won't matter who got what.....most of it will be ancient history and having a knock down fight over who gets the soft set of towels........not worth it and yes I am being facetious.
Let the lawyers do the dirty work from here on out, they will be able to buffer this type of stuff.
Me:29 WW:26 No kids 2 dogs T: 11 M: 2 D-day 1: 08/2010 D-day 2: 05/2011 1 POSOM Separated: 06/2011 WW ILY commits to M 9/18 Files D 9/19 ILY Still 9/21 WW are fun
