Believe it or not, you've been doing the lovingly detached bit for a while now. Focus on your daughters, focus on yourself. By loving yourself FIRST, you put yourself in a better position to love others. Continue GAL, make the changes in yourself first to make yourself feel better about YOU. Believe me, your W will notice. She won't admit it at first, but you need to do this for yourself and for your daughters regardless of the outcome.
