What do I do next?

[luvhurts49]

Well our marital assets and debts are pretty clear cut. About the only thing that could be an arguing point is some non-marital assets.

@Rick - I don't have a L yet, but I've talked to quite a few and will be hiring one in a day or two. My W did put in that I should be responsible for part of her L fee, but I don't see how she'll get it. Our pre D agreement was for 50/50, joint custody, and no CS, but we'll see what happens.

The problem I have is I want the physical C of my kids--not because I want CS, but because I want to prevent her from bending me over. See in Illinois, there isn't any joint physical custody law. What happens is, you can agree to no CS, but what can happen is that anytime after the D is final, the custodian can go down to the courthouse and then demand CS and will get it. So basically, I want to prevent my W from being able to bend me over just because she gets her panties in a twist and wants revenge for something. Because if she does that, then I will no longer be able to afford the house. I will have to file for bankruptcy and because the D is at that time final and her name will have been taken off the house, she won't have to file for bankruptcy and it won't affect her credit. It's just another way for her to hurt me.