Things have gone from bad to worse now. My W sent me a list of all our assets today and her initials next to things and mine next to others. It was so unrealistic. I rang her, she wouldn't answer. I rang and texted again. No response.
So emailed. And then spent the day in a fight over email. It got so nasty and bad.......ended with me saying if she ever wants to receive her things from the house then she needs to show me some respect and talk to me in person and like an adult. Also to return her engagement ring and everything else of value to me. God, it was nasty. She responded with it doesn't have to be this way and we are destroying every good memory of our time together. I told her they already were and I wished I never met her and every memory we have is ruined now.
Came home in a state of anger, sadness and panic. Tore up our wedding album and all our photos. I am an idiot.
I deserve this and I there is no stopping this now. I will get a divorce and we will never talk or see each other again.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011