My wife had an affair and confessed this to me .We where having problems this whole year as in normal relationships there is the times when you take your wife for granted ,make her feel unappreciated,family issues etc .She told me in the beginning of the year that she wanted a divorce ...I fought hard and changed myself and did the best that i could ,but also making mistakes along the way .Begining september i moved out to give her space ,but then 2 weeks afterwards she wanted me to come home from work and confessed she had an affair with a friend of ours ..it was hectic as his wife was phoning me ,phoning my wife ,him trying to get my wife back etc ....i forgave her and wanted us to work on our marriage although i had to really still deal with the fact my wife had an affair .it was hell but i went through it ,throwing tantrums about things but not being abusive or anything like that .My wife and i talked about the details and she admitted that she misses him in all ways ..me as a man was so angry and how could she still miss him etc etc ... she has now decided to want a divorce because she is not happy and wants different things and all of that ...i was really broken and mean how can she just throw in the towel when i gave her another chance and willing to work ...i know that it wont be easy at first but we can become stronger through this ...why does it feel like i have really being given an unfair situation
