i have read coach's and antlers' stories from beginning to end - also took a while, but I learned a lot from both of them as well. BTW, I didn't realize until recently that coach's wife was ALSO posting. I learned so much from her POV as well!
I have also read what Sandi2 and Bridgestone contributed in antler's threads... Great women as well! They brought soooo much good info for me in terms of understanding the hurt my H went thru...
I will definitely look in to brandNewDay's threads - thanks for recommending it.
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D