I hope so, dbmod...I hope so. Because I'm really pissed today with her.

UPDATE 6:15pm
She texts me from her work to tell me she'll be running late. Then she arrives to pick our son up, and I update her that I've booked me and our son's flight to DFW for the week of Thanksgiving. I told her I'll forward her the flight confirmation email tonight. She said ok.

And then I asked her if she would like to bring our son around my neighborhood to trick-or-treat.

M: Would you like to bring E to this area on Halloween for some trick-or-treating?
W: Come here?
M: Yes, around this neighborhood.
W: Well actually, I already have plans to take E with me to my friend's and do trick-or-treating with Jack (their 3 year old).

(At this point I was honestly flabbergasted that she didn't talk about this with me).

M: What?... I would like E to enjoy Halloween with me too, you know.
W: Isn't the church doing anything on Sunday night?

(I'm now double-flabbergasted at her plain presumptuous attitude).

M: No. They're not. They canceled it this year.
W: Well, I'm sure people will be giving out candy at 5pm here.

(OMG, what the crap?!?)

M: Okaaay then.

(I just looked away from her and focused on our son, said goodbye to him and closed his door).

Five minutes later, I've had enough and decided to text her the following:

"For future events involving E, can you remember to involve his father in the decision making before jumping the gun?"

I doubt she'll respond to that, but by not responding, it could be another thing that counts against her in a court case.

Tonight I've become more motivated to finish the financial disclosure forms and get my case moving along. It's not out of revenge, mind you. It's the knowledge that she flagrantly assumes/presumes that she will be taking our son away from me to the East Coast, that she thinks she has this case in the bag.

Sorry folks, but...arrggghh!!


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112