If SSMguy is really ready for the paid escort extra-marital thing, then he should seriously think about divorcing his wife.
The reason I say that is that both he and his wife deserve to have someone who loves them and wants to fulfill their partners need for love.
After readying MWD, and a host of others, I strongly believe that rather than "cheating" on my wife, that both she and I would be better off separating and struggling to find someone else.
As the sex therapist said to my wife, your husband really is a good man and has been trying hard to make you happy. He really deserves to find someone who will love him in a way that makes him happy.
My wife later admitted that she felt I would have no problem finding someone who would love me in the physical way that I wanted, but that she felt that I would never find anyone who would love me as emotionally deeply as she loved me.
I think that there is a lot of damage that is done to one's spirit or essence when one tries to live a lie. If you are seriously thinking about brining in a prostitute every few days to get you off, then I don't think you will find long term happiness, while still married to your wife. You might, but I think it will be hard.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
