My advice? Step far away and let her roll and bounce like the human pinball that she is. Maybe she'll come to a stop eventually, but you have no reason to put yourself in her path anymore. Like so many others have said, only she can solve her problems now.
Thanks for all your thoughts west. That's pretty much what I've figured from everything. She's on her own and as bad as it hurts I really have no options but to take care of me. It really makes you wonder sometimes if it will stop but I just don't see any signs of it just yet.
mid 20s Tgther 7 yrs W EA 04/12/11 PA 04/23/11 W filed 05/11/11 I moved out 08/05/11 Mediation mid Oct 11 D final Dec 11 Now what? ...2012