Journaling...

Another day in paradise. Had some interactions with H I don't know what to make of. I bailed him out of a car situation, and took him to work with D in tow. He was in a very bad mood. I did my DB best and asked if he was ok, but left it there when he didn't elaborate. Didn't react when he jumped me because I missed his phone call. Didn't react to his temper. Didn't react to him making a snide comment about me texting.

A couple of times today (the first after I asked him if he was ok, the second as I left) he said, 'this is hard'. He also noticed my wedding band (I have decided to wear it regardless until I am no longer married, even if he doesn't) and questioned it. I asked him, does it bother you? He just shook his head no.

Today he is a puzzle, but at least I didn't do anything to make things worse, I think.


M 40
H 45
T 6
M 5
D 3
Bomb: 5/2011
S 5/2011