25,

I usually read everything you write. Big Fan.

I do have a question about something you posted and I hope it's not hijacking this thread.

When you say I don't know ANY woman with 3 kids at that age WHILE also having the demanding career, who stay married.

Do you think this is just impossible or that something has to give in these situation and often times it's the marriage?

How is it possible, if at all, to have some sort of all three? if so, how?

You know my situation. My W is a psychologist, we have only 2 kids 5 and 2, and I am an L (though no courtroom work)

I know it's 2 kids vs 3, but I guess I never thought about it like that. Our MC, my IC kept telling me that what we had going on was very difficult.

Also, I did a substantial amount of parental and housework duties as well.

Were we destined to have issues.(not as an excuse) I guess I'm trying to get a woman's POV. thanks.

Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.