Sorry I haven't posted in a while, I have two consultants here this week doing a study and I've hardly been at my desk.
Things are kind of on autopilot the past 7-10 days. We get along pretty well and there's almost some sort of daily interaction.
Whenever we get together, its usually because of the D8 or when I let her come over to do her laundry. Usually she's even affectionate. Last weekend while I was cooking dinner, she approached me to hug and hang on me for 2-3 minutes and talk. She's even kissed me on the lips a couple of times.
This week we've been amicable, but I have pulled back a little. She's gone to a concert and a baseball game with the OM in question from earlier this summer and his alleged girlfriend. She swears that he's dating another woman and that she is just friends with him.
I also sense that she texts him pretty regularly about day-to-day trivial things such as how her day is, the weather, and other routine things, but she doesn't text me about those things. In my mind, she's filling an emotional need with him over me, and it's been bugging me.
Wow, as I typed this she just texted ME about something trivial going on in her office! LOL
Anyway, that's been on my mind the past week so when she's been over, I've been somewhat cold to her and made sure to not let myself be in a position where she can hug or touch me. I think she knows too, because she's left the house twice this week in a worse mood than she arrived in.
How are you doing? Good I hope!
Go Rangers!!!
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
