Hey SL, I see Jack has touched on some of the stuff I picked up...
Your W is the one that pointed out your "dream job"...
You mentioned that she was going to stay home a little longer, then changed her mind... something "caused" her to change her mind and go back... did she give you a reason? Did you believe the reason?
From where I sit, it almost sounds like your W would be willing to go back to being at home to see you in a more fulfilling job (and possibly more money?). Not a sacrifice for her so much perhaps, as being able to feel comfortable that she COULD go back to being a SAHM for a little while longer...
So, might I suggest... have a conversation about this thing that specifically seemed to interest your W. Find out why she might feel it would be a good choice...
