Without 'seeing' the book, or hearing key words...
"cheeseless tunnels" from DB for example, you wouldn't.
The NC on her part? More of a pipedream on your part, that it is from the book. Not being mean, I've read your other posts and you hit the nail on the head about logical vs illogical patterns...
Right now, you're trying to apply logic to the illogical. And if you both were doing NC? You could bring it up and say: "Why are we both doing this, it's silly" and then hug and hold hands, instant fix...and they don't exist outside of God touching her forhead or some sort of ammensia inducing accident.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
