This morning my W showed me a job announcement. It's the "perfect" job I always talked about. Neither of us want to move and uproot our kids but she says she doesn't want to go on like this, with me being unhappy. My job has some challenges - I works with unhappy people in a terrible building and it is often very stressful. However, those things never really bothered me that much until we had a third child (W wanted to have 3 and stay at home a while longer, but changed her mind and is back to work full time, at the same company - wish I knew how to link to my old threads). How do I explain that switching jobs isn't going to solve much? I'd rather stay where the kids are doing well (and W likes her job - another story entirely). But seems like W is saying something important about me being unhappy and "living like this". Or should I just say I'd rather stay here and figure out a way to "be happy".....ya'know work harder like everyone else and poke myself in the eye when I feel like complaining?
