untethering

[Finah]

I am skeptical that things are as clean and tidy as she keeps insisting they are.

Yup.......it's all the same my WW does it.......they all do it.

Reminds of those people in scary movies where they just sit there and say "this isn't happening, this isn't happening"

At this point - creating my own life in a way that fits who I am means much more to me than trying to figure out if she is or isn't telling herself stories.

Pretty much all you can do at this stage.


As for your job thing.......I know where you are coming from.

I have had 4 or 5 jobs in less than 4 years.......not good.


Mostly due to my WW.


One I was working too much......told me to quit.

One I wasn't working enough........told me to quit.

Then I was full time house Dad.....she liked that...

Then that wasn't good.......find a job

I find a job......I like it there, working @ corporate for a major clothing line......steady hours, no OT, laid back environment.

Then she didn't like my hours.......I was going to change my hours.......nope didn't like that


Finally I just gave up b/c I started noticing a pattern.....lol

Sometimes you just can't win.