Tel,
Thinking about this a little more today. Confirmation of om, while not a positive is not necessarily catastrophic. From all that I have been reading, these things dont tend to last all that long, and sometimes it is necessary for s to experiment, in order for her to put what she has with you in perspective. Just keep thinking that this guy cant hold a candle to you, she was with you all those years, you definately have the edge, you are a known entity that is fast turning into a new, improved product!!

Hang in there!

m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!