Your daughters are watching how you handle your sitch. I know it is difficult, but you have to focus on yourself and your girls. They need you to be strong for them.
My children are much younger, so I am not of much help in that department. There are some great vets that will be able to give you better advice regarding your daughters.
You NC mode is good. Not only for your H to miss you, but for your own sanity. You will hear about dropping the rope and detachment. sandi2 has a great analogy about dropping the rope. I will post it on your thread tomorrow if someone hasn't posted it by then.
Have you read or ordered the Divorce Remedy? You can read the first chapter on this site. You can also pull up Michele Wiener-Davis clips on youtube.
I had typed up a post and lost it. Hang in there and be patient. This is a marathon, not a sprint.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
