Yes Kitti, I get the "itch" to ask, and I have. I am a very verbal person and have a tendency to say exactly what's on my mind. Not always a good thing, especially when DBing.
I think though that timing is everything.
I also think HOW you say things is imperative. You have to be tactful and non-accusatory because that's a pretty loaded question.
Thing is with me though is everytime (almost) I've asked I almost always get the "I don't know" answer. Very frustrating I must say.
Now, I tell him what I need, since he does not seem to know what he needs.
We just had this talk yesterday when he called me. I blew up at him the other night and he called yesterday and I told him how I felt about our R.
I'm really detaching from him and it feels so much better than thinking about our R all the time! Have you been having these thought's Kitti? Rachael
