Looking for the silver lining...

[irishblessings]

While I agree with you Antonia - I also don't feel pleased with who I am right now. I don't feel "soft" any more. I don't feel like I am very kind or vulnerable - or like I see the best in people or even in life any longer. I feel as though I am calloused. And I don't like it. It's as if I have developed this tough skin and I can't seem to get back to the person I was.

Sorry I am adding this downer side to the conversation...