There are folks on the board who attract more 2x4s than others.
There are folks on the board who attract certain 'oldtimers' and certain advice than others.
I think it would be helpful for you to read prominent threads on each forum and then it could become clear to you who those folks are and what those posts are like. THEN you might recognize similarities in the things you post that the other folks post that attract the same things.
You get 2x4s for a reason. Some really seem unfair. Posters cannot REALLY know you. (even if you are connect in the alt)
But you attract them for a reason, and its in the story you tell. Can you recognize it? It's worth studying on your own.
