Quote: The few times that I allow myself to ask Monkey that, it reassures me, but I think he feels bad. I find him asking within a day's time whether I'm truly happy with him.
This is an interesting reminder that our need/desire for reassurance can somehow/sometimes get translated into a message to "them" that they're not doing it "right". (Kind of strong words but I'm hoping you know what I mean...)
Why is this so HARD???
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
