Looking for the silver lining...

[AntoniaB]

Here's something that should make us all feel good: remember how horrific the holidays were last year? For me, anyway, I was still in a state of shock and numb...and going through the holidays obsessed with whether XH might be thinking of me at all, or sad..especially as our wedding anniversary was a few days before Christmas.

Well I don't feel anything like that woman anymore, truly. I bet in so many ways you guys feel totally different too. Regardless of where we are now, we are SO not those same people anymore. So that's something positive to focus on.