Eat That Frog

[Underdog]

Oh, yeah, I get the urge about 20 hours out of every day... you're not alone!

[mockers2]

Thanks for stopping by my thread Kitti. I'm working on the big ten list of goals - hope to post them soon. Keep up the good work....and yes - I definitely get the urge to ask that question and so many others, but I just tell myself to close my mouth and keep swimming. I think I even said this outloud to myself last night while H and I were making the bed. H asked what I said, and I said "I was just talking to myself." H laughed. Maybe he thinks I'm nuts!

[sage]

let me ask everyone here something...have you ever gotten the ITCH to just come right out and ask your s "what EXACTLY is your intentions?"

having one of THOSE moments

Pretty much every darn day

Sage

[Phoenix_In_Bloom]

Yes,

Me too.

I'm afraid if I ask though...it'll just be me being needy and clingy..so I struggle every day to not ask.

Hugs.

[KutieKat]

ok, so the general consenses is to just keep my big mouth shut eh???

[Phoenix_In_Bloom]

The few times that I allow myself to ask Monkey that, it reassures me, but I think he feels bad. I find him asking within a day's time whether I'm truly happy with him.

So, my vote...don't ask.

Hugs.

[sage]

The few times that I allow myself to ask Monkey that, it reassures me, but I think he feels bad. I find him asking within a day's time whether I'm truly happy with him.

This is an interesting reminder that our need/desire for reassurance can somehow/sometimes get translated into a message to "them" that they're not doing it "right". (Kind of strong words but I'm hoping you know what I mean...)

Why is this so HARD???

Sage

[KAW]

Heelllooo there Kitti ...

What a great thread to start the year off with!!!

From the previous page ...

lots and lots of reading and focusing on ME - GOALS are helping SO MUCH - when i keep busy with what is making me feel good, i am not worried about my sitch as much

... and ...

detached from his DRAMA - i am not affected by his moods, i will NOT take the blame for his indescritions, but by working on my issues that i feel contributed to the downswing of our marriage, i am showing him i am going on with my life

That's what I call dancing to your own music!!!

let me ask everyone here something...have you ever gotten the ITCH to just come right out and ask your s "what EXACTLY is your intentions?" ... ok, so the general consenses is to just keep my big mouth shut eh???

Who here doesn't?! ... and yea, I'd say it time to turn up the V and crank your music some more and move to the beat ...

so ... show us the steps to the KewlKitti dance ... is anything like the Alley Cat where we all can join in?

'til later,
KAW

[holdingon]

let me ask everyone here something...have you ever gotten the ITCH to just come right out and ask your s "what EXACTLY is your intentions?"

Only when I am not sleeping, Kitti. And sometimes I dream about it, too.

[Blair]

Kitti
Checked over your thread. You've really made progress over the last few days; good work, especially the one on getting H's attention.