I think I am going to initiate contact through my lawyer. I can't move on or let go, and I want this pain and worry to be over. I am going to ask my L to send a letter to her lawyers starting proceedings. I've had enough and don't need or deserve this. If this is what she wants, then let's go with it. I'm done, and actually feeling more in control by deciding this action.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011
