Well thank you for telling me that you don't sleep with women for a long time. My few single male friends have told me that the dating scene is incredibly different than it was 20 years ago and that sex is expected asap. When I've expressed disapproval over this, I've been told "You're going to have to get over that if you want dates."
I have lady friends that feel the same way you do if that helps. And I can tell you that there is much confusion out there. I have women that feel that sex needs to be had asap else we aren't going anywhere. I feel that pressure from women.
Know what? I recognize that people are confused as a whole. I recognize that some are dangerous. I recognize I don't worry about those things because I am not going to let that stuff stop me from living my life. I never did before, but before I didn't notice the negatives
There are very few negatives really.
And you need new friends with some values. Sheesh.
A red head that glows in the dark? Punkin, the image that creates....
E, Thank you for clarifying the remark about the coat. I know the type that gets so upset they vomit when a girl says hi. I know girls the same way. I just refuse to play that game. I see people differently. To me they are all kids. Some greedy. Some upset. Some who want their mommy. Some that want to eat the blocks while others want to bulid them. I see some that are just bad kids and will end up on a post office wall later in the life. But just children all the same.
My romantic interests are different. They don't fit in that filter somehow. They come across as people. Adults. My friends don't either. But the general population is seen by me as kids.
I'm funny like that....
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
