If this was just a misunderstanding and C-dawg is just a friend, what do you want now?
If the answers to the questions above are different, do you know why?
If the answers to the questions above are different, do you really feel that way, or was it a gut reaction or a previously held belief?
Wanting to reconcile after an affair does not make you a doormat, your M can come back stronger. That said, we all have our line and we need to be true to our convictions. When you dig deep, what do you really want? Do you know yet?
I would take the breather you have now to figure this out for yourself. Forget what W wants, what do you want right now?
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015