Harrier, my exBF has not been seen or heard from in going on 48 hours. I don't know how to answer your question. I see coparenting as finding ways to transition a family to stability (me getting rest so I can find regular employment so I can move with D and get her sleeping on track). ExBF paying his support payments, and helping where he can. Us all transitioning to what is needed - me in a new place I can afford with work and a sleeping child - time with exBF so that her emotional healthy/stability/sleep isn't compromised. Currently he had more than 50% custody - we were just both parenting D in her space. He's gone now.
Does that answer your question? I mean, that's how I "see" it -that's not what's happening, so I'm just trying to roll with the punches.
Wow. That is not at all what I think co-parenting is or should be. I don't think you need to hear from exbf to answer the question for yourself.
I guess I should have asked you to remove yourself and exbf from the equation. Say you had to give advice to 2 people on how to co-parent what would you say?
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
