Just thinking, LG... putting this out there for you to consider...
Let's say your exBF and everything going on around you is exactly as you perceive... you have a bunch of toxic people in your life that are dragging you down and making your life miserable...
Ask yourself:
+ What do I want in my life?
Well being- financially, emotionally, health wise. A simple life. A supportive relationship with a man, and a support system in a community of neighbors and friends.
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
+ How can I remove myself from these people and their influence?
By not going to them over and over again - the well is dry. I get upset that it is dry. My mother, my sister, exBF etc. (my Ic just reminded me of this - these people can't give me what I need - so stop wasting energy on them - go to where there is real giving)
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
+ What do I want from this forum and its members if I just want out of this mess?
Continued support with not being delusional - facing the reality of who exBF is being right now rather than trying to ask for more. Brainstorming about sleeping stuff/housing stuff/etc.
It would be interesting to read clear, concise answers to the above questions... [/quote]
