Thank you for all the thoughtful responses.

I do want to continue to DB - unfortunately I'm not sure I have the strength to do so. It took all my willpower not to say anything last night. I'm not sure I'll be able to do that if there are any triggers.

I really would like to lovingly detach - can I, I'm not sure. I'm glad I won't really be interacting with her again until Sat, it gives me some breathing room.

She IMd me today telling me our plans for the weekend with the girls. How can she behanve like this when she's with another guy - she's certainly managed to detach.


M47
W45
D10 (Has CP)
D7
M12 T14
ILYBINILWY 5/1/11
Asked for seperation 5/10/11
Seriously DBing 7/1/11
W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11.
Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11
D - Final 7/11/12