I mean, I know he earlier said you fought all the time etc etc. But now, with the switch flipped, is he trying to say this only all happened inside his head, and you didn't do anything, and now it's all better?
I can't tell if you're still in MLC where the switch can flip back and forth, or if you're ready for piecing. Maybe you should read some of the piecing forum and see if the stories there help you figure out where you are.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.