Okay, so I made a typo...

The Key: Unselfish Giving, i.e. Giving out of love with NO strings attached.

As another sidenote, I found these notes recently in one my wife's Bibles that I've been using. Has my wife become a walking oxymoron?

M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112