Ok, more drama and confusion. Haven't talked to my W since finding out she filed for D. She texted me on 10/25/11 asking if I can watch the kids until 3 on Saturday (her day with the kids) because she has. Well, I didn't get the message as my phone was in another room and by the time I got back into the room (like 10 minutes later), I get another text message saying that since I didn't reply that she would have her dad do it. So I texted her back saying that of course I would watch the kids as I want to spend as much time with them as possible. She replied by saying, that's fine as long as its not an inconvenience. My God, what would ever make her think that our kids would ever be an inconvenience to me?

Alright, so this morning my W drops of S3 and as she was about to leave, he asks her for a hug. I'm hold our son at this time and she comes over and gives our son a hug and puts her hand on my arm. Then she turns around and he asks for another hug and my W turns around and gives him a hug again, but this time she puts her arm around me. She then leaves to go to work.

I know that I read too much into these things, but I really miss any kind of physical contact from my W, even the smallest touch. Between her coming over for dinner last week, then filing for D, now giving me a pseudo hug, I wonder what bad thing is going to happen next as this seems to be the pattern.


Me36, W38
S12, S3
T20, M4
Bomb dropped 8/18/11
Moved out 8/18/11
Filed for D 10/20/11
OM Confirmed 11/5/11