OK let's just say, the week before he flipped a switch, he was...

not in love, but loved me
did not feel passion
was uncertain
wanted to stay but go to counseling and figure it out
didn't think he could be happy with me

NOW.. he is

In love
feels passion
wants to stay, not just stay as a trial thing
wants to NOT have r talks in counseling and says he thinks counseling makes things worse
wants to ML each day, where before he never...


So a switch flipped, within a week's time. HOW did that happen and why? What changed for him?

When I asked him "What changed for you?" he said....

"I never left you, I never left our home. I never wanted to leave."

If that is true, then why in the @#%$$#% did he put me through all of this?

I don't get it. I shouldn't try.... cause this is MLC behavior right?