I think if I hadn't been a Christian, I would have never been able to forgive H. Sometimes it tested my patience. Him continuing to contact ow, blaming me for everything bad in his life. Him saying because I didn't have a career, he didn't get to live in the rich area of town like he deserved to do. Him saying he has struggled all his life. All totally untrue!! He is a cop, and I know it's a hard job, but it pays fairly well, and we have a nice house, so struggle? But, so works the mind of MLC.
I do know I still don't trust him. Maybe for some things I trust him, but the important things like not cheating, no. Maybe that will come one day. He has mentioned once in a while that he had a hand in how things were, but never has he apologized to me about the way he treated us. I don't even expect him too, anymore.
If there is any activity that your S enjoys, or something new he would like to try, get him involved with it to help take his mind off things. We did all sorts of things, like getting in the car and just drive; I would ask S which way, he would say, and off we would go to wherever! I took him to the high school parking lot to teach him to drive at fourteen. You may want to try that.
